Josh has been gone for 5 days, and we have survived. Actually, I might even say that we have thrived. A few rough patches, but the kids have been pretty wonderful. I’ve been getting to sleep earlier, and the early morning wake ups haven’t really been that bad. I’ve even managed to shower every day this week. Haha!
Monday we headed out to a playgroup run by one of my best friends. Have I ever mentioned how much I love playgroups? I love them so much. Snacks, toys, and other grown ups. I mostly love how little supervision I need to give Joe. He is pretty free to do whatever he wants, and I think it is so good for him. Continue reading
We visited my Papa over the weekend, and I came back home with a pretty big gift. A window into my childhood. A video of a fishing trip I took with him when I was three. At dinner at his house, we started chatting about where his roots began, in the Goldboro area of Nova Scotia. It is fascinating to me, to hear about the childhood of my parents and grandparents. In an age where constant documentation didn’t happen, to hear them recount based on sparse memories is something to be savoured. Upon talking about his upbringing, he remembered that he had taken a couple of home videos in the early 90’s, when he and my grandmother travelled here to Nova Scotia. My family met up with them in the Goldboro area, where a couple of my Papa’s sisters still lived. My Papa, and his sister Carrie took me out on a fishing trip, and he captured it on video! Of course! I knew my Papa took lots of pictures and videos when he was able to visit with us, but I have never seen those videos! I was so excited and asked if I could borrow some of his VHS. He told me to go downstairs, and I grabbed the one labeled “Fishing Trip”. Continue reading
Watching him from the iPad. He looks so small in that big bed!
This is going MUCH better than I expected. Joseph did the dreaded wake up last night, but it wasn’t nearly has dramatic as I had thought. We continued to do the 5-minute check-in with our script, “It’s time for sleeping. Mommy and daddy are right outside. I love you. Night night.” After 15 minutes he was back to sleep. Then he slept until 8:30am! That’s 13 hours of sleep! Continue reading
I actually wasn’t around for this first night of getting Joseph to learn how to sleep in his big bed. For the past 3 days, my heart has felt so anxious at the thought of going through the motions of this day. Today at dinner, I told Josh that I thought it would be better if I left. Not that he thought I couldn’t do it, but he knows how these things twist me up inside, and agreed that I should take a break and let him handle the first night. Continue reading
But they are so CUTE when they are sleeping. It makes you forget how psychotic they were just minutes ago.
I didn’t know sleep regressions were a thing until I was frantically Googling why my baby couldn’t sleep and found out that kids can go backwards. How cruel! Who designed babies to be this way?! And it’s not just a baby thing. Sleep regressions last into toddlerhood! Pair that with a mini-gymnast, and you have one hell of a rough ride ahead of you. I feel like I am obsessed with sleep between Joseph’s craziness and my own. Continue reading
A few weeks ago, Joseph got a pretty bad cut on his finger. Nothing that needed stitches, but he was bleeding for a bit. It took him a long time to calm down from being hurt, but it was the idea of me putting a bandaid on him that was particularly traumatic for him. We worked hard at convincing him that bandaids are good for bo-bos. But now he loves bandaids! The other day he had a big red bug bite on his leg and kept saying, “Ow. Hurt. Bo-bo.” And then he would go to the bathroom and say something along the lines of, “Bado-bada.” We had no idea what he was saying. Until we figured it out! He’s saying bandaid! So now anytime he sees a little red mark on himself he needs a bandaid for it.
Him being almost 2 means he has learned the word, “No”. I’ve been really anxious about this stage, with nightmares of overbearing toddlers screaming NOOOOOO. But he honestly says it in the nicest way, most of the time. Almost like a suggestion. “Joseph, is it time for bed?” “Nooooo?” As he shakes his head no. So cute.
Anything that is food and round is an apple. Although right now he’s not so much into apples as he is plums. The other night before bed he devoured two juicy red plums. He pointed to a third and said, “Happle?” “But Joseph, you just had two plums! You can’t want another one!” “I’m honey!” Hungry. He’s started saying hungry.
Too-too (thank you)
Juuuuu (anything that comes in a can)
Buppies (Bubble Guppies)
Dut (Mighty Ducks)
He is also really into cars. He has four big trucks and buses that he drives around. But lately, he brings them on our bed and drives them around up there! This kind of play is pretty big for us, because he hasn’t really been into independent play before. Today he received his first dinky car from a friend and he was driving it around on a big book I put on our bed. And the other day we couldn’t tear him away from the wooden train set at Chapters. This makes me delighted to watch him play. I know that imaginative play is just around the corner!
We’ve started using really short time outs for him when he does something he shouldn’t. Mostly it’s throwing things (like my phone, or an empty pickle jar), or hitting (it’s weird, sometimes when Josh hold him he gets a little spurt of aggression!). He takes time-outs really well, and when he comes out he needs to say sorry and gives kisses. He is so good at apologizing. A great life skill to have, but he’s almost too good at it! But I love those little remorseful kisses.
July has been a pretty happy month! There have been a few low moments, but the overall flavor was good!
The weather has been excellent here. We’ve taken so many opportunities to get outside and explore. Canada Day with my family, beach days, visiting museums, swimming at the Canada Games Centre, trail walking, going to the corner store to get candy, trips to Wal-Mart. Recently at the pool, Joseph started diving in! He counts himself down and then jumps in! Like, fully submerged. It’s so fun to see him do that. I love the idea that he might love the water like I do. Continue reading